Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders

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Since there’s no internationally accepted scale for measuring the male libido, your man should record whatever numbers seem appropriate.

For example on the first day (and your man should be sexually sated when the exercise begins) he might enter a ‘1’ for horniness and a ‘1’ for frustration. And to be honest, if he is asking for you to be his keyholder, then he should at least be able to complete this exercise for you. By becoming your man’s keyholder, you accept his sacrifice and repay him with a unique and extraordinary gift. This means they have hard corners, unlike the smooth radius of a custom- made ring, and this can make them uncomfortable for long-term wear.Exercise Two: Chastity Diary The second exercise requires your man to keep a diary during his periods of voluntary chastity, recording how aroused and frustrated he felt from day to day. And last but not least, you will also be providing him with an unforgettably frustrating erotic experience.

That’s inevitable because of the natural physiological differences between the sexes; it comes with the hand you were both dealt along with your genders. Encourage him to think for himself, to anticipate your desires, to fulfill your needs before you’re even aware of them yourself.Remind him of how powerless it makes him, and that he’d better be good if he ever wants to get free of it.

If you ever lose the key and resort to cutting a metal lock, be sure to wear eye protection and to cover and protect any parts of the body that might otherwise be injured by tools or flying debris. Taking pleasure from a man doesn’t disqualify you from being a Nice Girl; neither does being worshipped and adored. might seek relief in pornography, masturbation or phone sex lines; in extreme cases he may be tempted into a ruinous affair. If a man needs to empty his bladder while out in the woods or countryside, then as long as he can find a convenient bush to stand behind, he just needs to unzip and he’s good to go. The exact details of what is or is not possible will vary with his anatomy, the design of the chastity device, and the demands of the particular sport; running in a lightweight tube-type device might be no problem, for example, while a contact sport would be a completely different matter.

She has since played the keyholding role with me off and on, but has enjoyed it so much that she commented how glad she was in having the idea to purchase a chastity device after reading Ms. Cruel as this practice might sound, I understand it provides a uniquely mind-blowing (not to mention mind-bending) experience for a submissive man. I did try to encourage my KH to make use of the service because she has not joined this site and I thought that may be easier for her.

It's matter of fact but also very reassuring that keyholding is all about us Ladies and we can do it our way! Despite all advice to the contrary, the idea of locking him up may make her feel cruel or mean – or it might simply leave her cold. He’ll probably become aroused immediately, which will give you the opportunity to observe the constraining effects of the chastity device at first hand. Choosing a plastic locking system also means that there’s no key to take care of and nothing that might get lost, providing another argument for using such a system if your man remains in chastity while traveling. He will refrain from masturbation, self-stimulation, or any form of erotic activity unless he has your explicit permission.Part of that may be due to biology, though it sure also goes back to the way most of us have been brought up, with boys encouraged to be decisive and daring and girls encouraged to be desired and demure. They can be stimulating and arousing, but there’s no rule that says they have to be brought to life. A heterosexual relationship that includes enforced male chastity is, by definition, a manifestation of male submission and female dominance.